“Imagine if we treated fluidity as natural. Imagine if we had high expectations, not of our own abilities to squeeze into predetermined boxes, but of the ranges of our sexual imaginations themselves. Imagine if we were encouraged to play around with, sleep with, and fall in love with whoever we really, truly desired. (Sure, that might end up being one gender, but at least then we would know it was our choice.)“
This. Yessss.
“Imagine if we treated fluidity as natural. Imagine if we had high expectations, not of our own abilities to squeeze into predetermined boxes, but of the ranges of our sexual imaginations themselves. Imagine if we were encouraged to play around with, sleep with, and fall in love with whoever we really, truly desired. (Sure, that might end up being one gender, but at least then we would know it was our choice.)“